Rescued from 'Living Hell,' Russian Boy Found Home in Bethlehem
Dateline NBC tells the tale of faith and perseverance of 'The Boy From Baby House 10.'
This Sunday, Dateline NBC will trace John Lahutsky's journey from Baby House 10, the Russian orphanage where he was placed after his alcoholic parents abandoned him and his two sisters Tanya and Olga, to his new life in Bethlehem Township with his adoptive mother Paula Lahutsky.
A story of courage beyond belief, John, formerly known as Vanya Pastukov, has survived to tell it because of the efforts of those in the Orthodox Church who adamantly campaigned for his extrication from his living hell and because of the Bethlehem woman who adopted him when he was 9 years old.
In September 1998, Paula Lahutsky answered an ad in her Sunday Church bulletin written by an adoptive couple returning from Russia who had come across a child with cerebral palsy in desperate need of adoption.
“The moment I read it, I just knew,” Lahutsky said. “He would have died in Russia.”
By October, she had initiated the first call to adopt Vanya through the Orthodox Church in America (OCA) and by July of 1999, she had a court date to legally adopt Vanya from the Russian asylum where he was little more than a prisoner in his metal crib, drugged, neglected and labeled an “imbecile.”
Lahutsky said the process was guided by “a force much stronger than myself — God,” because there were so many obstacles she felt she could not overcome only to discover that a solution found her.
“I really had no plans to adopt,” Lahutsky said. “I had taken care of my father, who was a bilateral amputee, until he died in 1997.”
Because she had taken care of her father, Lahutsky’s house was already handicap accessible and, as a school psychologist, she felt prepared to handle any developmental delays that would accompany adopting a child with cerebral palsy.
While she took care of her father, Lahutsky also hosted a Russian seminary student, Alexei, and later his wife, Maria. The couple later became a valuable contact for housing and transportation for her in Russia when she arrived to claim John.
When she felt her anxiety over driving distances would prevent her from fulfilling immigration clearances in Philadelphia, she randomly met an individual who made the trip regularly, worked in the Immigration Department and was familiar with foreign adoptions.
The chance encounter happened because his wife ran over her mailbox with her car. Instead of a new mailbox, she got a ride to Philadelphia.
“If there was any doubt, it was gone after that,” Lahutsky said.
By the time Lahutsky got to meet John, his speech had deteriorated from lack of usage and social confinement. He knew very little English. To help him along, she made him a picture flip book of everything he would encounter in America — his new room, school, house, people, and more.
“He is truly an amazing kid,” Lahutsky said. “He learned English by Christmas. . . he was thrilled to go to school; he never went to school and started first grade at the age of 10.”
Now 21, John will graduate from Freedom High School in June. He plans to attend Northampton Community College to explore film making. He is also the author of The Boy From Baby House 10, the publication that sparked the Dateline interview, which he wrote with Alan Philips, a British Journalist who first brought the story to media attention when John was only six.
John never thinks of himself as disabled or handicapped. Even though he went through this dehumanizing experience “his glass is always half full,” his adoptive mother said. “He always sees the good in everyone.”
The Orthodox Church continues to play a key role in their lives. “He is strong in his faith,” Lahutsky said. John and his mother have attended services regularly at St. Paul’s Orthodox Church in Emmaus for the past 10 years.
On Sunday, Paula will gather with friends, relatives and John for the Dateline NBC program featuring John’s triumphant story of overcoming the greatest odds to find fulfillment a world away from Russia, Baby House 10 or the metal bars of his crib.
Kelly Prentice
2:20 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011
Tara, great article, so inspiring. Thank you!! It made me cry.
Tara Zrinski
4:24 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011
Thanks, I teared up when I interviewed Paula. Their story really moved me.
Marsha Kashner
5:01 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011
I was a teacher at East Hills Middle School where John attended. I was privileged to have John in my Family and Consumer Science class. He is a wonderful young man and he always entered my classroom with a friendly smile and was always very upbeat. I wish him only the best as he graduates from Freedom and he contines his education at Northampton Community College.
Mrs. Kashner
john wallaesa
5:48 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011
I also had the privilege to teach John at Freedom High School. John never had a bad day and always was smiling. He has such a desire to learn and succeed and has inspired so many at Freedom. When John courageously shares his story at various presentations, it is so powerful and puts everything into perspective. As many students have said, John is the man! Best of luck! You are a true hero!
John Wallaesa
Fr. Andrew S. Damick
9:20 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011
We are quite proud at St. Paul's in Emmaus to have John and his mother among our parishioners!
Coopersburg Parent
9:40 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011
I read the book that John co-authored about his life. Very inspiring. So glad to hear that he is doing so well. I wish him the best!
Cate Shea
9:46 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011
This is a really nice article. I was surprised to see that the news item I sent to your editor ended up as a full article wth photos and lots of background information. Thanks a whole lot for a great job on a really inspiring story. Cate Shea
Tara Zrinski
10:30 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011
Cate, it was a pleasure. It was fascinating story and I personally wanted to know more after I talked with Paula. John is truly an extraordinary young man with so much potential, it is hard to believe he came from such humble beginnings. Thank you for alerting Daryl to the story.
Stephen
9:40 am on Saturday, April 9, 2011
John and Paula, Many years! Hronia Polla!
Sylvia
12:32 am on Saturday, April 23, 2011
What a wonderful story! Hronia Polla from me also.
Hannah
5:12 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
where is russia? is it in asia or eastern europe?
Hannah
5:31 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012
John's beautiful! God made him born in Russia with cerebral palsy for a reason. If he did not have cerebral palsy, he would've been like everyone else. His true name is John, not Vanya. Just like the little baby Zachary Higier, whose true name is Zachary, not Nikita...r.i.p. zachary higier
God made John have cerebral palsy because He wanted to fulfill a purpose. He spent 10 years in America--more than he would ever have--tied down in Russia. Or waving in Russian, if blessed.